I use the same gretag calibrator, but, my monitor certainly could use calibrating again. My monitor isn't so hot and I know it. The Sony silicon graphic CRT stopped holding a calibration and took ages to warm up to proper color
Soooo, until I spring for a better one, this is what I have. My prints come out pretty much as I see on the monitor. Just gotta softproof
These were shot at F2, so, some of the loss of detail *may* be from such a shallow DOF.
I gave her a bath today so, she looks a little closer to your version now

Jim, if you come north at all, like into GA, let me know. I need to assist someone as I have been asked to shoot the St Bernard Nationals in 08. I really don't want to do so before being an assistant!!! I will even do so for free.