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Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: Jim Garvie] #25349
10/01/09 01:39 PM
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Thanks to everyone for your sympathy and your kind words. Linda and I appreciate them more than you know. Losing both boys in the same day was very difficult. But, in some ways, it was actually a relief.

Had we tried to go through another 3 or 4 months with Crash as we had with Rowdy -- watching him die a little every day -- I don't think it would have been good for anyone in the household. Least of all, Crash. But God's plan must have been to take him swiftly because by the time we discovered the cancer, it had already progressed too far. Waiting would not have been for long and would not have been pleasant for Crash. We really had no choice.

As for Rowdy, he left us the same way he lived his life -- with dignity and love. At no time in the 3 months since his diagnosis did he ever complain. Even when I had to lift him up in the middle of the night to take him outside, he only licked my ear and said "aren't you too old to be doing this kind of thing?" Smartass dog!

He was very special. As was Crash. Rowdy make me promise not to post stuff with all his titles and achievements. He said that kind of stuff is only important when we're alive. When we are dead, the most important thing is to say: "He was a good dog. He loved everyone and he was in turn loved by many."

Thank you all for your support.

Jim


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Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: Jim Garvie] #25350
10/01/09 02:22 PM
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The song "Good Dog" from the album "The Dog Singer" comes to mind.

http://www.thedogsinger.com/thedogsinger/

Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: Jim Poor] #25351
10/03/09 09:53 AM
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Plays the song "Old King" from Neil Young. Its a little rough around the edges...but still stirs the bond we have with our pets.

Also "Ghost Of A Dog" from Edie Brickell.

Both songs speak of the bond.

My sincerest condolances.

Roman

Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: RomanJohnston] #25352
10/09/09 08:27 AM
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A news item about Rottie loyalty for Jim G:

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2009/09/2...dStoriesPrimary

Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: psmith] #25353
10/09/09 09:03 AM
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Lovely story and wonderful dog. I have no doubt that they love us as much as we love them. Perhaps more. Based on my Rescue work, I can attest that they are certainly more loyal than many people.

Thanks for sharing this, Preston.

Jim


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Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: Jim Garvie] #25354
10/09/09 09:09 AM
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One more note: while last week was devastating to us emotionally, this week we got back a bit of joy. Juneau, our Rowdy granddaughter, was confirmed to be pregnant. While we won't know how many puppies until around November 2 when we Xray, the vet did say that she felt "multiple fetuses". We hope to keep a Rowdette from this litter.

The irony of the vet visit was that we confirmed Juneau's pregnancy and were given Rowdy and Cash's ashes to bring home with us. Oddly, it felt right to be sharing our joy with the two boys. And it was good to bring them home again.

So, keep a look out for puppy pics starting around November 8. We will be whelping the litter here at Puppy Central.

Jim


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Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: Jim Garvie] #25355
10/09/09 09:47 AM
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Can't wait for puppy pics!

Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: Jim Poor] #25356
11/14/09 08:25 PM
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Oh Jim I haven't peeked in here in a long time I am so sorry, I had no idea the boys were even sick! I was quite shocked to hear this. I know how much they meant to you and Linda, they were very lucky to have lived a life full of such meaning and love. I am thinking of you both.


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Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: Dee Dee] #25357
11/14/09 10:11 PM
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Hi DeeDee, and how are you? Thought about you lately when I saw a wonderful sculpture of a long haired Doxie. Hope all is well with you. Glad you dropped in.


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Re: Sometimes, Life Can Be Very Cruel [Re: Dee Dee] #25358
11/15/09 07:12 AM
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Dee Dee,
first of all, how wonderful to hear from you. I think about you often. Hope all is going well in your life. As for Rowdy and Crash, yes, it was pretty devastating. With Rowdy, we had time to plan. He was diagnosed with cancer in July and given very little time. He decided otherwise and lived a full 3 months despite his body's decline. When he left, he told us it was time.

Crash was sudden and due to a large mass discovered the weekend before we had decided to put Rowdy down. Crash was always the silent one in the house. The one that got his attention when the others weren't around. The guy who went out with me every morning to get the newspaper. I miss him so much because there wasn't time to say "goodbye" the way we had with Rowdy. They were both wonderful dogs and lifelong companions and we loved them both equally and miss them both equally.

Please don't stay away from the forum. We miss you.

Jim


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